Student Finances How to Date on a Budget Read the Article Open Share Drawer Share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window) Written by Zina Kumok Published Mar 2, 2020 - [Updated Apr 26, 2022] 5 min read Advertising Disclosure The views expressed on this blog are those of the bloggers, and not necessarily those of Intuit. Third-party blogger may have received compensation for their time and services. Click here to read full disclosure on third-party bloggers. This blog does not provide legal, financial, accounting or tax advice. The content on this blog is "as is" and carries no warranties. Intuit does not warrant or guarantee the accuracy, reliability, and completeness of the content on this blog. After 20 days, comments are closed on posts. Intuit may, but has no obligation to, monitor comments. Comments that include profanity or abusive language will not be posted. Click here to read full Terms of Service. When I first started seeing my future husband in college and we were dating on a budget, our dates defined frugal. Whether it was a walk around campus, a movie night at his place or a meal of chicken breast and canned corn at my place (don’t worry, he does the cooking now), we rarely spent more than a few bucks each. Those dates set the tone for the frugal lifestyle we live now. By letting money become an early part of the conversation, we quickly became comfortable sharing our financial goals, setbacks and blind spots. Your dates may not always be as cheap as ours, but you can still keep them within a tight budget. That means driving down costs when possible, and freeing up space somewhere else when it’s not. Here are some tried and true methods for building dates into your budget. Be Upfront Studies show that people would rather discuss religion or politics than their credit scores. In other words, someone on a first date is more likely to share who they’re voting for than their total student loan balance. Financial shame exists on a real level, but being honest is the best way to counteract that shame. Instead of coyly suggesting a cheaper restaurant, tell your date you’re on a budget. He or she might appreciate the honesty, and they’re likely in a similar position. This conversation can also weed out mates who don’t appreciate a frank financial discussion. Admitting you’re broke can be more embarrassing if you’re a guy and feel pressured to pay for the date. Still, honesty is better than overdrawing your bank account. How to Add Dating to Your Budget Even if you try to avoid expensive outings, dating can still get pricey. Expenses like restaurants, bars, premium dating apps and Uber rides can add up quickly, especially if you date a lot. Prepare for this inevitability by making it a separate line item in your budget. Look over your budget and see how much room there is for dating. If you don’t have a budget already, now’s a good time to create one. Like other variable expenses, the amount you spend every month on dating may vary. During a slow month, carry the funds over into the next month. If you routinely find yourself spending more or less on dating, update the budget to reflect your habits. Cheap Date Ideas When you’re a college student not bringing in much income, cheap date ideas can be a life-saver. Some of these ideas can work for hanging out with friends, not just romantic partners. Look Around Campus Every college offers free or inexpensive activities for students. My school’s student union had a free movie every weekend, usually an Oscar contender or box office hit. The union also had its own bowling alley, which only cost $5 per person including lane and shoe rental. Check out the campus newspaper or local city paper to see what free or cheap events are happening. Ask your friends about their favorite affordable ways to spend time on campus. Consider doing something different, like going to watch the soccer team or exploring an art exhibit. If you’re going off-campus, ask about student rates or discounts and bring your student ID to prove eligibility. Meet at Coffee Shops Instead of Bars Even when you’re old enough to hit up the bars, they don’t tend to be the best date spots. Bars are loud, you have to jostle for space and getting served can take forever. Plus, drinks at bars can be pricey -especially if you have to pay a cover fee or want to Uber home. Opt for a date at a local coffee shop where even the most extravagant latte won’t cost more than a few dollars. It’s also a quieter spot, more conducive to intimate conversation. Consider Campus Dining Options If you’re truly broke, the campus dining hall is your most frugal option. The ambiance may not compare to a restaurant, but you can switch things up by going to a dining hall you never visit. You can also take the meal and eat it in a secluded part of campus. Plan Picnics Picnics are a staple in romantic comedies, and they’re also popular with frugal romantics. Instead of getting a meal at a restaurant, pick up supplies at the grocery store for a picnic at a local park or campus courtyard. All you need is a bottle of wine, a baguette and a wheel of cheese. Top it off with salami or veggies, depending on your dietary preferences. You can probably get all the ingredients for $20 or less. Explore the Outdoors Exploring nature is a great frugal activity and a unique way to spend time. Check out the university arboretum or conservatory, drive outside town to the nearby state park or walk down to the river. You can combine this with the picnic idea and bring some snacks to share. Some city and state parks even have low-cost activities, like boat rental or a toboggan course. Host a Potluck A potluck dinner is a great option for a group date. Ask everyone to bring a dish, a six-pack of beer or a bottle of wine. It’s a great, low-key way to impress a date with your culinary skills and introduce them to your friends. This is less expensive than making an entire meal for you and your date, and it combines the social aspect of group dates -without the cost of cover or drinks at a bar. Plan Weekday Dates Planning a date for a Friday or Saturday is often easier because of class and work schedules, but you could save more money by going out on a weekday. Restaurants and bars are more likely to have weekday specials on food and drinks. The movie theater near my house offers $5 tickets on Tuesdays, a 50% discount compared to the rest of the week. Be sure to check opening hours before you go, since many restaurants are closed on Mondays. Do you have good tips for dating on a budget? Leave them in the comments! Previous Post Should You Pay Off Student Debt with a Credit Card… Next Post Social Currency: What It Is And How To Use It… Written by Zina Kumok Zina Kumok is a freelance writer specializing in personal finance. A former reporter, she has covered murder trials, the Final Four and everything in between. She has been featured in Lifehacker, DailyWorth and Time. Read about how she paid off $28,000 worth of student loans in three years at Conscious Coins. More from Zina Kumok Visit the website of Zina Kumok. Browse Related Articles Mint App News Intuit Credit Karma welcomes all Minters! Retirement 101 5 Things the SECURE 2.0 Act changes about retirement Home Buying 101 What Are Homeowners Association (HOA) Fees and What Do … Financial Planning What Are Tax Deductions and Credits? 20 Ways To Save on… Financial Planning What Is Income Tax and How Is It Calculated? 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